Tips When Getting Ready For The Intervention
Tuesday, September 30th, 2008“After years of chronic alcoholism and drug addiction, I was unable to help myself in any way,” writes author Jeff Jay. “Although I had been a national merit scholar, president of my high school student association, and head of the alter boys, I was now homeless and penniless. I had a bleeding ulcer, a bleeding colon, and neuropathy of the legs. I was unable to eat solid food and I was sleeping under bushes in the city parks. But I still didn’t think that I had an alcohol or drug problem. I just thought I had a little cash flow problem.” Denial is the hallmark of drug and alcohol addiction. Therefore, you may come up against some tough obstacles when you’re planning the intervention that will ultimately save your loved one’s life.
The first step for an intervention is to choose the members to be involved. This group generally consists of three to eight people comprised of family members, friends, coworkers, clergy or a professional interventionist. Each person must be firmly committed and able to look the addict in the eye and say “You have a problem.” They must firmly resolve to end the cycle of enabling to really help the person. The team members must have intimate, first hand knowledge of the situation to successfully break through the addict’s denial. You must select people who have leverage and influence over the individual, who have the ability to make an emotional impact. In some cases, a seemingly helpless person like a young child could have the largest impact. Never underestimate the power of love. Prior to the intervention, a chairperson and a detail person should be chosen to facilitate the process and to keep a record of everything.
Prior to the intervention, certain decisions must be made. Part of the plan will include choosing a treatment center, checking with the insurance company to see what’s covered, pooling resources privately, working with other agencies to get the treatment subsidized if need be, and finding the best treatment providers in the area. The ideal abuse treatment facility is an inpatient or residential center, rather than outpatient treatment. A Medstat intervention study found that residential stays of 21-28 days were twice as effective in preventing relapses, as compared to outpatient stays of 7 days or less.
The power of love, clarity and honesty in a group setting cannot be overstated. Sometimes the sheer shock that a support net has assembled with a game plan is enough to stir the substance abuser’s emotions, prompting them to spontaneously agree to substance abuse treatment, even if he or she doubts the decision on the inside. Reading books, consulting a professional interventionist and enlisting the help of various organizations can be great tools to successfully plan intervention strategies. Interventions have saved thousands of families, so why not yours?